FEMMES

We respect and celebrate everyone’s pronouns and gender expression - show up as your most authentic self. For the girlies, they/thems, and anyone leaning into a femme look, we love to see texture, lace, sheer layers, and full length drama - in white only. That means no champagne, eggshell, darker shades, or colors - just white.

The vibe is red carpet ready - bold, elegant, and expressive. We kindly ask that guests skip voluminous gowns or tulle to keep things chic and in line with the event’s aesthetic.

MASCS

For the guys, trans mascs, and guests opting for a more masculine look, here are some B + D approved style notes:

Black is strictly off-limits in guest attire - unless it’s on your head (think sunglasses or a statement hat for the parade) or on your feet. No exceptions.

We’re aiming for standout, celebratory style. Show up in something bold, joyful, and tailored to the formal occasion.

NON-CONFORMISTS

For our theys, we encourage you to express yourself in whatever way feels most you. Whether you’re blending silhouettes or mixing up masc and femme energy, here are some ideas to help you dress it up and celebrate both sides of the spectrum - or land somewhere uniquely your own. this is a wedding where you’re allowed to wear white! seize the moment and have fun with it.

with love and appreciation,

dee + b